ANDREW’S LITTLE BLOG OF FACEBOOK ETIQUETTE
An Andrew Rambling Tirade
“Sometimes people carry to such perfection the mask they have assumed that in due course they actually become the person they seem.”
- W. Somerset Maugham, The Moon and Sixpence
- W. Somerset Maugham, The Moon and Sixpence
My life is terrific! No kidding, it’s really pretty damn good. I have a smart beautiful wife who I love beyond description. I have 3 wonderful sons, each with unique minds, talents and abilities. I run my own small business. I live in a nice neighborhood. I am in good health and as far I know, I am the master of my own destiny. Considering all of this goodlyness, I know I should be content. So, here is the rub. I was content until about five or six years ago when the little online Vanity Mirror known as Facebook came into most of our lives. Sure it’s a great way to stay in touch and reconnect with old friends and…..blah, blah, blah.
Lest we forget, the telephone, email and to a lesser degree texting also once helped us “reach out and touch someone.” Let’s stop kidding ourselves, staying in touch with grade school pals or looking up old girlfriends and boyfriends has very little to do with why Facebook has succeeded, dominated and defined the world of Electronic Social Media. It has succeeded because it lets us ask “Who’s the fairest of them all?” to any number of the ubiquitous smart phones, tablets or computer screens in our world. For this question we are rewarded with a “Like” a “LOL” or it’s bawdier cousin “LMFAO.” Personally nothing makes me happier than picking up my phone and seeing that little red notification box indicating that my little magic mirror is indeed still quenching my vanity’s never-ending thirst for recognition.
This is a brave new world, and like it or not, new worlds come with new rules. Some are old carryovers from the pen, paper and stamp days. Some are new constructions, which have only known existence in the form of binary code. Regardless of their origins, they have all morphed into social mores that necessarily must be considered and followed if it is your intention to be a “proper” resident of the Facebook Universe.
A – ALWAYS like a comment made about your status, photos or shared links. (Regardless of how humiliating, offensive or insulting the comment is. In the event that the comment is beyond your “like threshold”, you should simply delete it.)
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B - BULLSHIT is easy to spot. (That’s right, we all remember your jutting chin, crooked nose and drooping eyelid. So keep in mind that we all know that the amazing once in a lifetime profile selfie you posted really isn’t how you look.)
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B - BULLSHIT is easy to spot. (That’s right, we all remember your jutting chin, crooked nose and drooping eyelid. So keep in mind that we all know that the amazing once in a lifetime profile selfie you posted really isn’t how you look.)
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C – COLLATERAL insults are just bad form. (While crass remarks toward a status post are acceptable and expected, abusive, insulting or off-color jabs at another friend’s comment in that “vine” is crossing the line.)
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D – DISTURBING personal information should never be posted under any circumstances. (That’s right, ladies! Your post about how the Monistat 7 is proving to be ineffective in battling your raging yeast infection really doesn’t need to be shared in a semi-public forum!)
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E – ENOUGH with the cardboard signs begging for “Likes!” (Asking for Likes via solicitation with an oft poorly printed, marginally legible cardboard sign is the Facebook equivalent of panhandling. Always try to get your Likes the old fashion way, for instance a nice before and after fatty photo, or a post about waking up face down in a pool of your own sick, is infinitely more acceptable.)
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F – FUCK should never be used in a status or a comment. (While this beloved word is utilized for any number or reasons at infinite times in our daily lives, it just seems a little coarse for postings. Frigging, Effing and even F*%@ing get the point across just fine.)
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G – GOD does not have his own Facebook page…yet! (Posting on the behalf of the Almighty is probably unnecessary. While posting inspirational messages about one’s faith or prayers is perfectly acceptable, asking members of the Facebook community to validate their faith by “Liking” if they believe in God, Jesus, Buddha, Shiva or whomever, is just plain obnoxious.)
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H – HOW many Likes did your post get? (This phrase should never be spoken between two or more semi-intelligent adults. Truth be told, nobody really cares. Remember, Likes are for personal vanity validation only.)
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I – INVITES to play imbecilic games on Facebook should be punishable by death. (Farmville, Mafia Wars and Candy Crush Saga are nothing more than Facebook style narcotics. Don’t be a pusher….just say No!)
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J – JESUS is welcome in my home. (Despite how many times you may like this post, he probably isn’t going to show up at your next barbecue. The best practice from this time forward would be to stop posting and sharing Meme’s of this nature. Jesus certainly has bigger fish to fry than hanging around your place.)
C – COLLATERAL insults are just bad form. (While crass remarks toward a status post are acceptable and expected, abusive, insulting or off-color jabs at another friend’s comment in that “vine” is crossing the line.)
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D – DISTURBING personal information should never be posted under any circumstances. (That’s right, ladies! Your post about how the Monistat 7 is proving to be ineffective in battling your raging yeast infection really doesn’t need to be shared in a semi-public forum!)
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E – ENOUGH with the cardboard signs begging for “Likes!” (Asking for Likes via solicitation with an oft poorly printed, marginally legible cardboard sign is the Facebook equivalent of panhandling. Always try to get your Likes the old fashion way, for instance a nice before and after fatty photo, or a post about waking up face down in a pool of your own sick, is infinitely more acceptable.)
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F – FUCK should never be used in a status or a comment. (While this beloved word is utilized for any number or reasons at infinite times in our daily lives, it just seems a little coarse for postings. Frigging, Effing and even F*%@ing get the point across just fine.)
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G – GOD does not have his own Facebook page…yet! (Posting on the behalf of the Almighty is probably unnecessary. While posting inspirational messages about one’s faith or prayers is perfectly acceptable, asking members of the Facebook community to validate their faith by “Liking” if they believe in God, Jesus, Buddha, Shiva or whomever, is just plain obnoxious.)
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H – HOW many Likes did your post get? (This phrase should never be spoken between two or more semi-intelligent adults. Truth be told, nobody really cares. Remember, Likes are for personal vanity validation only.)
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I – INVITES to play imbecilic games on Facebook should be punishable by death. (Farmville, Mafia Wars and Candy Crush Saga are nothing more than Facebook style narcotics. Don’t be a pusher….just say No!)
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J – JESUS is welcome in my home. (Despite how many times you may like this post, he probably isn’t going to show up at your next barbecue. The best practice from this time forward would be to stop posting and sharing Meme’s of this nature. Jesus certainly has bigger fish to fry than hanging around your place.)
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"Ma, it's that Jesus guy again!" |
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K – KEEP up with inbox messages. (It is easy to forget that Facebook has this private messaging and communications component. Try to use this if discretion is a consideration. However if discretion were a consideration, you probably wouldn’t be blabbing all over Facebook in the first place.)
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L – LESS is more with regard to relationship status. (Posting every makeup, breakup, quarrel and kindness between you and your significant other is truly too much information for your Facebook family to bear or care about.)
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M – MONEY will never come your way by liking or sharing pictures of “Fat Stacks of Cash.” (If you were born poor, you’ll probably die poor. Nothing on Facebook can change that fate. Praying or maybe even working would be much more likely to remedy your cash shortage.)
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N – Name-calling is worse than a straightforward insult when it’s in writing. (Facebook is about sharing thoughts, experiences and ideas. When that results in the sharer being called a dick, a pinko, a fag, a jerk, a loser, a twerp or a Republican, that is just plain hurtful, and this action diminishes the experience for the entire social media community.)
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O – ORIGINAL posts are best. (While posts about your dinner, the weather or your latest workout routine are certainly riveting to you, these posts leave the rest of us bored to tears.)
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P – PICTURES of all kinds are great! (Exception: Those graphic pictures of babies born with their hearts on the outside of their bodies; Soldiers who have been terribly maimed in the line of duty and shots of your feet when you are chillaxing on the beach…..not so great.)
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Q – QUOTES are one of the most inspirational things you can share on Facebook. (And for an added bonus, when you transcribe them into your post incorrectly, we all get to laugh at you.)
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R – REPORT a post to Facebook. (Really? Don’t waste your time. This action is about as impacting as a fart in a windstorm.)
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S – STOP stopping what you are doing with your friends and family to share your experience. (Take a picture and share it later. You should always live for the experience, not for the posting.)
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T – TAKE it easy. (It’s just Facebook not the Holy Scriptures. Don’t take any writing or information obtained on social media too seriously.)
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U – UNFRIENDING is serious stuff. (Wait a day from the time you make the decision until the time you actually pull the trigger.)
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V – VACATION postings serve a duel purpose. (They let you share many aspects of your trip with friends and family and remind the majority of your acquaintances of how pathetic they are for not being able to afford a terrific vacation as well.)
K – KEEP up with inbox messages. (It is easy to forget that Facebook has this private messaging and communications component. Try to use this if discretion is a consideration. However if discretion were a consideration, you probably wouldn’t be blabbing all over Facebook in the first place.)
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L – LESS is more with regard to relationship status. (Posting every makeup, breakup, quarrel and kindness between you and your significant other is truly too much information for your Facebook family to bear or care about.)
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M – MONEY will never come your way by liking or sharing pictures of “Fat Stacks of Cash.” (If you were born poor, you’ll probably die poor. Nothing on Facebook can change that fate. Praying or maybe even working would be much more likely to remedy your cash shortage.)
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N – Name-calling is worse than a straightforward insult when it’s in writing. (Facebook is about sharing thoughts, experiences and ideas. When that results in the sharer being called a dick, a pinko, a fag, a jerk, a loser, a twerp or a Republican, that is just plain hurtful, and this action diminishes the experience for the entire social media community.)
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O – ORIGINAL posts are best. (While posts about your dinner, the weather or your latest workout routine are certainly riveting to you, these posts leave the rest of us bored to tears.)
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P – PICTURES of all kinds are great! (Exception: Those graphic pictures of babies born with their hearts on the outside of their bodies; Soldiers who have been terribly maimed in the line of duty and shots of your feet when you are chillaxing on the beach…..not so great.)
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Q – QUOTES are one of the most inspirational things you can share on Facebook. (And for an added bonus, when you transcribe them into your post incorrectly, we all get to laugh at you.)
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R – REPORT a post to Facebook. (Really? Don’t waste your time. This action is about as impacting as a fart in a windstorm.)
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S – STOP stopping what you are doing with your friends and family to share your experience. (Take a picture and share it later. You should always live for the experience, not for the posting.)
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T – TAKE it easy. (It’s just Facebook not the Holy Scriptures. Don’t take any writing or information obtained on social media too seriously.)
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U – UNFRIENDING is serious stuff. (Wait a day from the time you make the decision until the time you actually pull the trigger.)
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V – VACATION postings serve a duel purpose. (They let you share many aspects of your trip with friends and family and remind the majority of your acquaintances of how pathetic they are for not being able to afford a terrific vacation as well.)
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You post shit like this just to piss me off, right? |
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W – WEAR a damn shirt in your profile picture! (Guys, you know who you are. Nobody wants to see your middle-aged pectorals every time you Like or comment on a post.)
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X – X RATED content has a multitude of online homes. (Please refer to FUCK to get the gist of this item.)
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Y – YEAR should always be included in your birthday if this information is included in your profile. (If the Facebook community is going to be expected to wish you a Happy Birthday, then they should at least be able to privately snicker at how bad you look for your age.)
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Z – ZERO likes are a complete repudiation of you and your posting.
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X – X RATED content has a multitude of online homes. (Please refer to FUCK to get the gist of this item.)
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Y – YEAR should always be included in your birthday if this information is included in your profile. (If the Facebook community is going to be expected to wish you a Happy Birthday, then they should at least be able to privately snicker at how bad you look for your age.)
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Z – ZERO likes are a complete repudiation of you and your posting.